I didn’t used to believe that. I thought that if you were really in love with someone, there was no room for anyone else.
What I have learned (and believe I’m experiencing right now) is that you are attracted to different things in different people and can very well be.
When I ended my most recent relationship, the love I felt for him didn’t end. I just accepted that our situation wasn’t ideal for what we both wanted.
I began talking to a friend again, with whom I’ve had a close friendship with for several years. We talk several times a day and have always flirted with each other. I’ve always loved this guy too, it was just more of a loving friendship, now it seems to have kicked up a notch.
I find myself thinking about him more than I probably should now, but then again, I AM single…
I guess you're saying rebound feelings, right? Remember, I loved this dude before the previous two relationships ever began. Never thought I had a chance with him. Still don’t know if I really do. I mean I know he loves me. He tells me nearly every time we talk. But love and IN LOVE? Two very different things.
If I had to make a choice to leave one or the other completely alone right this second, I don’t think I could.
*shrug* Time will tell…
