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Friday, May 25, 2012
The Second Time Around: 30 Day Truth and Love Challenge
June 3, it will be a year that I decided to become a single woman again and a year that I will celebrate(?) celibacy. Define celibacy? Some will argue that if you say you're celibate, it means you haven't had sex, no self-love etc. You've done absolutely nothing.
Well, the World English dictionary says that to be celibate is to abstain from sexual intercourse and the definition of sexual intercourse is
genital contact, especially the insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by orgasm; coitus; copulation. So that's the definition I'll go with.
So yeah...It hasn't been easy, but I am in the mindset that no one gets the goodies unless we're in love. In "like" just doesn't get it for me anymore.
Which brings me to this...I'm pretty sure I'm in love with someone and I don't know what to do with it. I'm not sure they feel the exact same way about me, but I'm not sure they don't either.
I'm interested in learning how my opinions and feelings have changed about certain persons and situations since I last took this challenge and I invite you to do it too.
So here are the questions:
1~ First Love (of course!)...what they meant/mean to you...
2~ Best Love...what they meant/mean to you...
3~ Last/Most Recent Love...what they meant/mean to you...
4~ Favorite Love song...and why?
5~ Favorite Romantic Movie
6~ What is your idea of true love?
7~ Have you ever been deeply in love? Explain
8~ Do you think you can be in love with two people at the same time?
9~ Tell us about the first time you ever made love (not had sex)
10~ List 10 people you love and explain what they mean to you
11~ Whom (no names, if you prefer) did you love, who didn't love you back?
12~ Do you believe in zodiac compatibility? Who is your best match from experience? You worst?
13~ Do you believe in unconditional love?
14~ Recreate your most romantic date (a real one)...
15~ Can you live without a love relationship?
16~ Do you believe in love at first sight?
17~ Do you think young people can fall in love and it be true?
18~ Have you ever been in a love triangle...with you as the object of desire?
19~ What do you love to do the most?
20~ Do you believe in Long Distance/Internet Love? Why or Why not?
21~ What is the most romantic location you would want to visit?
22~ Create the perfect love scene
23~ Do you think love and marriage are synonymous?
24~ Have you broken anyone's heart?
25~ Looking back on your life...who taught you the most about what love is/isn't?
26~ If your young daughter or son came to you and told you they were in love with someone your age...what would your response be?
27~ Does anyone you've broken up with still love and pursue you?
28~ If you had a choice between a love relationship and just sex [guaranteed]...which would you choose?
29~ Write a Love letter to your soul mate (whether you feel you've met them or not)
30~ Did this love challenge teach you anything? If so/not...what/why?